Two doctors, one tube, and a second opinion that wasn't a doctor's
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I had my son five years ago, naturally — great pregnancy, great birth. When he was about a year and a half we started trying for our second. I tried for a year and nothing was working, so I made an appointment with a fertility doctor. They found a hydrosalpinx, a complete blockage on my right fallopian tube, and recommended surgery to remove the tube. I had the surgery. They told me I could still try naturally with one tube, so I did — a few months, still nothing.
I went back and we started IUI. I did about three rounds and nothing was working. Everything looked great; my follicles looked great. Then my doctor started talking about IVF, and during that appointment he finally reviewed my surgical history — which should have been reviewed before I started IUI — looked at me and said, 'I don't think you will get pregnant naturally with the one tube.' I left there so defeated, and annoyed that this hadn't been discussed beforehand.
I took a two-month break from the medication, from going in every morning for bloodwork and follicle checks. It was a lot. Then my mother-in-law messaged me about an acupuncturist she'd been seeing. She said, 'I told him your story. He doesn't care that you have one tube — he thinks he can help you.' I said okay, I will try anything.
I did two months with Greg, and on the second month I was pregnant. I hadn't seen a positive pregnancy test in well over three years. He explained that my issue was a mechanical one, and just took all my anxiety away. Every time he walked into the room he knew exactly where I was, what we did last time, what we were doing this time.
He was on paternity leave when I found out, so I tracked him down on Instagram because I had to tell him. And here I am, days away from giving birth — that's why I'm out of breath.
If you're struggling, or if you feel like there's no way around IVF, or a doctor has given up hope for you — go see Greg and let him assess what he thinks is best for you. He's honest. He'll tell you yes, this is going to work, or no, it isn't. In the fertility world you can feel like a number. This is just a very positive place.
